What makes it hard for you to listen,
or to truly hear what someone else is saying?
Selfishness the first word that comes on my mind and immediately thought of a definition for that word, but can't remember its author;
” A selfish person is one who is completely devoid of any consideration for the selfishness of others.”
bakit ba puro emo na lang ang post dito?
ReplyDeletenyahaha peace!
nyahahaha, that's who i am : )
ReplyDeletelistening, in human nature, is never our greatest abilities..
ReplyDeletei don't know why...
Mindless gossip, Loud abrasive sounds–racing car engines, jackhammers
ReplyDelete@bea trisha - nice salamat sa muling pag bisita : )
ReplyDelete@jinx - thanks for the add-ons
@jinx - masakit ba sa tenga : )hehe
ReplyDeleteHMMM... at least, hindi ako selfish all the time. heheh... seldom lang. =)
ReplyDelete@Rcyan - ganun ba, hehe'
ReplyDeletetagal mo di bumisita ah : )
siguro kasi the person is so absorbed in his/her own thoughts so he/she's not listening?
ReplyDeleteaccording sa last seminar na na-attendan ko sa maersk:
during discussion/conversation, we only listen for 17seconds (ata)..
after nun, we stop listening and our mind will start processing the raw data for information.. *lol*
@Raye - aba parang di ko alam yang seminar na yan' the chosen one lng ba hehe
ReplyDeleteemo?!!! haha minsan ganyan ako..kaso hindi ko pa naipo-post sa blog ko...
ReplyDeletebisita lang po..interesting ang blog mo tol...babalik balikan ko..para m,a-emo din ako..hahaha!
nabasa ko minsan s isang book ang line na to.."we are given two ears and one mouth to listen twice than we speak.."
ReplyDeletemen make better listeners than women
ReplyDeletekasi ang babae
di pa tapos magsalita yun kausap
sasabat na agad
nyahaha
Listening to the words is not enough. The speaker and the listener should first have a rapport so that the listener can understand what the speaker means to impart. Without this emphatic link, true connection will never be established, and everything will grind into nothing but a one-sided monologue.
ReplyDelete@mokong - salamat, welcome to my site.
ReplyDelete@superjaid - pwede pala yung hearts na yan sa id mo hehe
@raft3r - sinabi mo pa, lalo na sa ermat ko nyahahaha
@shattershards - yup tama ka dyan, pero bket minsan ung di nman - ika nga ni raft3r hehe
@wait - listening advantage yun.. pakana ng EDU for team leads.. ehehe..
ReplyDeletewhen that person has nothing really good to say... i'll end up arguing lang with that person at the back of my mind
ReplyDelete@raye - ganun? Nagttipid tlga mga EDU na yan di kme sinasama sa pakana. Dnt tell me sa hotel yang seminar na yan? Magwawala tlga ako nyahahahaha
ReplyDelete@paui - hay buti na lng nag komento ka baka nsa back of ur mind nako. Nyehehe
ReplyDeletewell, selfishness involves all senses.
ReplyDeleteAx, i agree : )
ReplyDeleteAx, i agree : )
ReplyDelete@Raye - aba parang di ko alam yang seminar na yan' the chosen one lng ba hehe
ReplyDelete@Rcyan - ganun ba, hehe'
ReplyDeletetagal mo di bumisita ah : )
HMMM... at least, hindi ako selfish all the time. heheh... seldom lang. =)
ReplyDelete@bea trisha - nice salamat sa muling pag bisita : )
ReplyDelete@jinx - thanks for the add-ons
nyahahaha, that's who i am : )
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