Sometimes I find just the right words that others have written and they help me along through my journey and my difficulties.
I found them here in Blogosphere.
Meaningful relationships with others gives me the most satisfaction;
My most rewarding experiences come through sharing either in presence, or in writing, and connecting with the thoughts, ideas, emotions, essence, and presence of another.
I always feel a keen sense of accomplishment when my writing has taken me to a place that I needed to go and did not know it.
I love discovery and not just through my words.
Sometimes I feel the words of others are traveling towards me, seeking me as their target, as if my need for the right words, the right ideas, the right thought to take me to my next level of existence and knowing is calling out to them to find me.
Well, here's a little bit of a dilemma that I have come across and wonder about.
If we are attracting into our lives what we need, then other are attracting us into their lives because of what they need.
I am always unsure of what my right action is when the relationship is turbulent, or I am not happy, or they are not happy.
It seems if both are not willing to “evolve", then we have to go our separate ways.
It is complicated and probably would take an entire book.
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She is a very cute friend of mine who doesn't take life seriously.
Well, not taking life seriously has it's positives and negatives.
Life is about living and having fun. Cut them a break!
eventually, it will all boil down to keeping things simple (uncomplicated).
ReplyDeletei read this on a notebook cover:
"our only obligation is happiness..."
Boying Opaw
ReplyDelete...the end result, Joy!
One thing I have been painfully taught the past years is this: Not all relationships are meant to last forever. We may try to hold on to it for as long as we could, but those times when we are forcing the relationship to work would seem hellish. Especially if the work is one-sided.
ReplyDeleteAnd let's face it, some relationships are like addictions. It's great once you're high on it, but the withdrawal stage would be the most trying time of your life.
hai. relationships. i remember a friend once told me, "Pam, walang relationship na hindi nagwowork. You make the relationship work. Both parties should be willing kasi to work it out." Makes sense naman talaga diba? :)
ReplyDeleteNapakalalim naman. huwag masyado mag-isip ng malalim. Isipin mo na lang.... nawawala tuloy ako. hindi. basta you did your best. enjoy life. yan palagi iniisip ko kapag emo mode ako.
ReplyDeleteWriting really does help and reading others saying helps us evolve and learn as well...
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ReplyDeletehealthy snack pa
sorry at totally irrelevant ang comment ko
hehe
happy weekend, wait
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ReplyDelete.... relationship... it's always a choice...
ReplyDeleteto meet... to depart... there's always a time for it... it's a choice...
i believe that one should be complete first before going into a relationship. the line "you complete me" is not the ideal line in love but "i am complete and I choose to share my life with you..."
ReplyDeleteyou don't really need the person you just choose the person.=)
hmnn, may naalala akong advise from my 4th angel.. when you're in a relationship, you should grow together. once nagkaroon ng kahit anong klaseng paglihis ng landas, mahihirapan na kayong pagtagpuin ulet...
ReplyDeleterelationships? nakow. wla akong alm jan..bsta sbi nila dpat dw both ang effort to be called
ReplyDeleterelationship..no one-sided love watsoever..
:wink:
relationships are a must for us to grow as persons. corny as it may sound, other people make us complete - family, friends, SOs, officemates, crushes...
ReplyDeleteParang ang weird naman kung ang habol mo lang sa paniinternet eh makahanap ng relationship... most likely eh panandalian lang yan kung meron man... jijijijiji
ReplyDeleteXprosaic
ReplyDeleteNyaaah Hindi Ganun hehe...
Pamie
Yup, I agree : )
ShatterShards
"some relationships are like addictions" - totoo to!
reFRESH
Yes, Enjoy Life! Thanks
Axel
ReplyDeleteit really helps a lot! : )
Raft3r
Oks lng yun, Thanks : D
wubi akajapanandme
You are most welcome : )
brVince
yes' its a matter of choice.
jassy
ReplyDelete"i am complete and I choose to share my life with you..."
- love this line : )
Raye
parang pag nakagawa ng isang pagkakamali yung isa hirap na makalimutan. parang ganun ba yun?
precious
hirap maging martyr... hehe
The Scud
Hindi naman corny...
kase totoo naman : D
hay relationship lang ang masasabi ko...madami na akong natutunan at palagay ko eh marami pa ang dapat matutunan about sa kaekekan na yan!
ReplyDeletep0kw4ng
ReplyDeleteTama ka madami pang dapat matutunan.
p0kw4ng
ReplyDeleteTama ka madami pang dapat matutunan.
jassy
ReplyDelete"i am complete and I choose to share my life with you..."
- love this line : )
Raye
parang pag nakagawa ng isang pagkakamali yung isa hirap na makalimutan. parang ganun ba yun?
precious
hirap maging martyr... hehe
The Scud
Hindi naman corny...
kase totoo naman : D
Napakalalim naman. huwag masyado mag-isip ng malalim. Isipin mo na lang.... nawawala tuloy ako. hindi. basta you did your best. enjoy life. yan palagi iniisip ko kapag emo mode ako.
ReplyDeleteOne thing I have been painfully taught the past years is this: Not all relationships are meant to last forever. We may try to hold on to it for as long as we could, but those times when we are forcing the relationship to work would seem hellish. Especially if the work is one-sided.
ReplyDeleteAnd let's face it, some relationships are like addictions. It's great once you're high on it, but the withdrawal stage would be the most trying time of your life.