Friday, October 16, 2009

PORN OR NO PORN

First time I saw porn, I was eight.

I saw naked people and was like, 'what was that?

It was exciting, And then it's also a lot of curiosity.

Do you think pornography can be Tastefully done?
That's always a question that comes up.

I don't think porn can be done tastefully.

In my opinion, promiscuity does degrade the participants involved.
There is no other attachment, no real kindness just gratification of the base human need.

A lot of people would disagree and see all forms of sexuality as empowering for women.

But I think a lot of the these we see today is seen mainly through a Patriarchal sense.

As with most areas in society, mens way is considered the best way.
Being aggressive, being the hunter, taking what you want is the looked upon as cool and sexy.

My opinion -- It's that mentality that has put us in the situations we find ourselves.

Porn is an extension of that. The man is usually the aggressor, and the woman as prey. Not only in porn but in many different aspects of media.

I am not afraid to admit that I watch porn.
Most of the stuff is absurd though.Most of it is boring, And don't really watch it as much now...




92 comments:

  1. kanya kanya lang naman yan e. nasa tao lang. di ako mahilig sa porn, mas gusto kong pastime ay mga horror movies :D

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  2. dencios - yeah ^.^
    i'm fond of watching horror suspense thriller films...
    thanks sa visit.

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  3. nanonood din ako ng porn..minsan katuwaan..merong ok sa pagkakagawa..yung tipong normal lang talaga na ginagawa ng normal na tao..pero meron din namang talagang sobrang nabababoy na ang babae at yung tipong sobra na..may mga kung ano ano pang anik anik na pinagsusuot..jows mio! ahaha

    salamat sa pagdaan sa bahay ko ha...

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  4. i watch porn. i even like porn.

    but then again i grew up.

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  5. first year college, first time watching porn. i was thrilled, i enjoyed watching. hinanap-hanap ko, i was like addicted pero na-realize ko it was nothing really. pampa-libog lang. minsan, kapag bored pero nakakatulugan ko na.

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  6. hehe
    i think fondness for porn decreases as one ages
    pero sa tanong na porn or no porn
    sa porn pa din ako
    nyahaha

    happy weekend, wait

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  7. porn...not the same when i was a teen...napakaraming bagay ang dapat asikasuhin ngaun, sabi nga great power, great responsibilities...kaya di ko maisingit ang panonood ng porn, isa pare-pareho lang naman...eto na what do you think of chat show/live show/on cam show (watever they called that)?

    thanks buddy for dropping by...

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  8. well, i was a freshman colej student wen i 1st watch porn and from a school vicinity pa..so ngng comedy lng din samin..my brother used to have a collection, i sneak peek or watch it when he's out but nothing happened..i cnt see any passion in it..its brutally done...lyk a man's been into a week-long cravings..LOL..

    porn or no porn? OR...


    depends on d weather! haha! :lol:

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  9. Well... you should know that there's one that you call half anti-porn, half pro-porn...

    and i am jUST one. =)

    Anyway, care to exchange links? Holla at my page...

    Joel here. =)

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  10. wushu! hahaha!

    porn? ano yun? di ko alam yun eh hahaha!

    nakapanood na rin ako niyan dahil sa mga kabigan ko.. kung anui ano kasing mga dinadala kapag may movie marathon.. tsk tsk

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  11. nanonood ako ng porn, but it doesn't mean bad na ako..hehe

    just for past time..

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  12. you are right in saying that porn is some kind of masochistic because the way it is generally presented, it is devoid of love and tender loving care associated with a relationship and women are being treated as objects of pleasure and nothing more.

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  13. I think it all depends on one's priorities and how important one's faith or relationships are to oneself.

    If one believes, for instance, that porn isn't good for one's relationships with God or his/her spouse/partner, and values their relationships with them above his own desires, then one will make the effort to give up porn, no matter how difficult it is, because those relationships are more important to him/her.

    If one believes, on the other hand, that porn can enhance one's relationship with God or her/his partner, or does not see porn as harmful to those relationships, then porn shouldn't be a problem.

    wait, thanks for swinging by GannsDeen.com. Mariah's CD is all right by me; my favorite track is "Languishing."

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  14. porn. i dont watch porn that much. pag wala lang akong magawa. pastime? pero it gets boring actually. siguro nandun na ko sa sinasabi ni gillboard. im growing up.

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  15. I actually first though your site was for *something else*. Haha! Reading the word "porn" in the title turned my red alert alarm bells on!

    But i won't kid myself, i watched porn a thousand times over. (uhmm, maybe I shouldn't have said that in that way..) Hehe, but who doesn't? (well, actually alam ko sino hindi nanonood..)

    Haha, i'm making my post too long already.. just wanted to say, thanks for dropping by.. :)

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  16. may porn na nakakatawa! peksman! tulad ng mga hentai, halimbawa, sailor moon meets dragonball-z

    o kaya naman eh yung cinderella nad the seven dwarfs, meron ding tarzan and jane!

    kaniya-kaniya yan. am not a moral terrorist.

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  17. mulong - di ba snow white yun... ?hehe

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  18. ganns - yeah "I think it all depends on one's priorities and how important one's faith or relationships are to oneself."
    thanks for the comment : )
    ...will added you on my list!

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  19. p0kw4ng - anik anik talaga hehe
    salamat sa pagdaan at komento
    added you sa list : )

    sows - waaaaaah yeah it depends on the weather! nyahhahhaha

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  20. raft3r - hahahaha ganun tlaga pag tumatanda na.

    gillboard - yeah I agree : )

    patpatingtalinghaga - most of it is boring! hehe

    SCOFIELD JR. - parang SPider Man Lang ah hehe' salamat din sa pag daan : )

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  21. ako din di mahilig sa porn...
    nagpapakaconservative...
    sabi nga eh... imagination is the best aphrodisiac... sabi ko nga eh nagpapakaconservative, hindi conservative...

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  22. i watch porn every now and then but i dont get the feeling of being "horny". Sex is still best doing it for real not just merely imagination. Sorry but i beg to disagree if you find porn boring it doesnt mean you've grown up.. Gesz you will always find ways to watch it... hahaha

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  23. ENS - shake own imagination'

    fjordz - wushu' hehe magamit nga yang word na yan hehe

    Joel - na add na kita : )

    RUEL - yeah of course' salamat sa pagdaan ^.^

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  24. ric - hahaha well the first time ive watched...kind of like this feeling and I would just watch it for a long time...

    Badong & Angel of Mayhem -
    welcome to my Page' visit again

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  25. bw - I tend to think that if you're using someone elses body for your own pleasure, it's an intolerable form of objectification.

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  26. Naku di ko na maalala ilan ang age ko nung una ako nakakita... jijijijiji... I think what differs a porn from an art form is by doing it in distasteful manner... but whatever it is... I ain't complaining though... ahahahahhahahahaha

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  27. Xprosaic - nyahahaha yun un eh hehe : D

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  28. well porn is not only for lustiness, instead it makes people to learn about something that we need to use condoms, most of porn, like hard bareback, they show that we should have to use condom, and that is one way of letting us to be aware about virus and diseases.. it is up to you, if you will be horny about those jaw dropping scene..

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  29. make your own porn. it's the best policy on sensuality hehe. now if that episode (series talaga LOL) gets to reach mainstream viewing, iba na 'yun. case in point: hayden.

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  30. tim - may punto ka nman dyan : )

    random student - cge ill make my own porn... nyahahahaha

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  31. hmnn, i don't watch porn.. hentai kasi ang pinapanood ko e.. ehehe

    may story kasi yung mga yun e.

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  32. Knoxxy - hehe thanks for dropping by...

    RaYe - hentai? Wala pa ako napanood nyan...

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  33. ay may ganun hahaha. i don't think so.

    i think mas sexist ang simbahan.

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  34. Dabo - hehe may ganun talaga'
    welcome sa aking pahina : )

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  35. Porn can never really be done tastefully, but nudity can be done in a very tasteful manner...

    Anu nga pala mga porn mo dyan?? enge ako... hehehe

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  36. watched tyra and saw how adult film actresses are being mistreated during shootings... the things u said are right... there's this patriarchal sense pa rin in our society right now

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  37. like most of the typical young people, nanunood din ako ng porn movies...
    but now that I'm on my early 20s na, boring na yang panunood ng mga ganyan...
    id prefer to sleep na nga lang e...
    parang wala ng thrill kasi sa sangkatutak na porn ba naman na napanuod mo, walang alam mo na lahat ng mangyayari...

    but id also like to comment on the gender issue side here...
    yeah, i agree that in our society, it is always the men who dominate, pero mabuti na lang obsolete na yang ganyang pananaw ngaun...
    pero pagdating sa porn movies, naawa pa rin ako sa mga babae lalo na pag sobrang baboy na nung ginagawa...

    anyway, nice post...:)

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  38. yep john, hentai..

    mga porn ng anime.. hahaha..

    nakakaaliw ang imagination ng mga japanese e.. *lol*

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  39. wait ---sayang namn---bakit ka di nakasama sa Bohol?

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  40. odd but I think it porn could be tastefully done......

    ...but I also agree that in most cases, people in those porno films, esp the women --just pretend that they are in ecstasy even if they are not.

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  41. Axel - Nyahaha' sa net madami hehe

    Traveliztera - Apir! hehe

    Mavs - salamat : )

    RaYe - ma try nga mapanood yang hentai na yan... Nyahaha

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  42. PUSANG-gala - Naku work related issue : (

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  43. i only watch porn now cuz i'm single!!! =D

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  44. nakapanood ako ng porn siguro 10 years old ako...at nag-enjoy naman... hehehe

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  45. Grade 5 ako nung una akong nakapanood ng porn. Tapos tuloy-tuloy na.
    Sa dami na ng napanood kong porn, parang wala ng effect.
    Mas naeexcite pa ako sa mga rated R films kasi mas nabibigyan ang utak mo na mag-imagine kung anong pwedeng mangyari sa mainit na eksena. =op

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  46. Oh oh oh, i watched porn after college na. my family did not want me to watch kapag nanonood sila. yung mga friends ko noong nag-aaral pa ako hindi nanonood rin. Pero curious talaga ako mapanood yun until umabot ako sa matured age. meron naman magandang porn kapag may story talaga siya. pero yung movie na ang purpose ay talagang porn talaga, parang wala lang. i stopped watching porn noong ginagawa ko na siya mismo. lol. sa stage yan kasi ng life.

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  47. to all - salamat sa mga matatapang na nag comment : )

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  48. ako, i first saw one when i was in elementary, grade 5 siguro. but i become so interested to the point of staying up til 5 am nung nag-21 ako. pampalipas lang ng init hehe...

    and i agree with timberboy...yung porn di na maxado nakaka-excite kc predictable... ok pa nga yung mga Rated R lang.

    btw, tnx for the visit sa blog ko.

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  49. ilonggo man ko. nakita ko man gani ang comment mo sa blog ni ramdom student. taga iloilo ka man. hehehe

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  50. I am not into porn movies. At ayun nga sa pagkasabi ni Dencios, nasa tao lang yan. Halimbawa kung may bata na nakapanood. Nasa nakatatanda kung paano nya mae-explain ng maayos kung ano ang napanood nya. At nadi na nya dapat pang makita iyon sa kanyang edad. Great post. ;D

    Solo
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  51. johnonline - yeah i agree din'
    predictable na nga'
    cge Rated R na lng hehe

    MISSINGª - mabuhay ang mga taga ILOILO! Apir! hehe

    Solo - Salamat sa Dalaw : )

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  52. sa blog pala ni yodz. yung ramdon student kaw ba yun? pasensiya, nalilito ako dahil nagko-connect ang mga blogger dito.

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  53. MISSINGª - nyahaha di ako si random student' pero lage ako tumatambay dun' hehehe

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  54. at eight??? wow, pinagpala! hahahaha! eh, di mo nga lang alam kung porn yun or what.

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  55. hi wait, thanks for visiting. :)

    in my opinion, porn can be tastefully done. but when that happens, its not called porn anymore, but erotica. :) soshal, di ba?

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  56. vince - hehe uu nga napaaga' namulat agad ako :D

    gentle - Erotica mas ok ang term na yan' "modern term" : )

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  57. mahihirapan pa kong maghanap eh... enge na lang ako ng copy... lolz

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  58. pare-pareho lang lahat ng porn. bad acting, bad script, same old sexual position. gayahin na nila kama sutra para mas masaya. lol.

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  59. Axel - Hala.... Seryoso?

    The Scud - Di ko pa napapanood KamaSutra : )

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  60. guilty as charged parekoy... hehe. pero siyempre mas marami pa rin akong ibag pinapanuod na genre... merong action(na may sex)
    comedy(na may sex)
    drama(na may sex)
    suspense(na may sex)
    at horror(siyempre walang sex.. hehe. ano kaya yun?)

    biro lang. lahat ng ngumiti, guilty. haha

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  61. mr.nightcrawler - ngumiti ako ibig sabihin guilty ako? Hehehe

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  62. Abou - Hehe' like everyone else : D

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  63. hi Wait,

    i cant believe its you. ngayon lang kita nakilala frend.

    just reacting to this blog.
    well answering your question porn or no porn. im on the porn and yet no porn side. depende siguro kung pano mo pinapanood ang isang sexual film.

    pero sa tingin ko hindi mo na maiaalis ang sexual sensation sa ating lipunan, just play it safe para walang gulo.

    yun lang po. : )

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  64. JuneAngas - Oist' Back To WOrk... Hahaha

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  65. you should have gone to bohol

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  66. Raft3r - Naku Next year... di ko na sasayangin ang Tiket ko hehe

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  67. I'm guilty of this but I don't usually watch that much :D You'll realize that it becomes "distasteful" when you frequent it.

    pero people can't seem to live without it lol!

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  68. Summer - Haha' thanks for dropping by : )

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  69. uhmmm, uu seryoso ako... lolz

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  70. enjayneer - Pagkain ata. Hehe

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  71. I think porn can be done tastefully, but it will not appeal to all tastes hehehehehe oo nga nakakasawa na nga ang porn kaya ako kapag natupad ang dream kong maging porn director I will revolutionize porn!

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  72. the way i look at porn movies, nabago un habang nagmamature ako. iba noong highschool ako, iba noong discovery period at syempre malaking pagkakaiba na ngayon. madalas akong nawawalan ng interes sa pure porn at hardcore. mas gusto ko na yung senswal at may istorya.

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  73. the way i look at porn movies, nabago un habang nagmamature ako. iba noong highschool ako, iba noong discovery period at syempre malaking pagkakaiba na ngayon. madalas akong nawawalan ng interes sa pure porn at hardcore. mas gusto ko na yung senswal at may istorya.

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  74. hi Wait,

    i cant believe its you. ngayon lang kita nakilala frend.

    just reacting to this blog.
    well answering your question porn or no porn. im on the porn and yet no porn side. depende siguro kung pano mo pinapanood ang isang sexual film.

    pero sa tingin ko hindi mo na maiaalis ang sexual sensation sa ating lipunan, just play it safe para walang gulo.

    yun lang po. : )

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  75. mahihirapan pa kong maghanap eh... enge na lang ako ng copy... lolz

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  76. hi wait, thanks for visiting. :)

    in my opinion, porn can be tastefully done. but when that happens, its not called porn anymore, but erotica. :) soshal, di ba?

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  77. at eight??? wow, pinagpala! hahahaha! eh, di mo nga lang alam kung porn yun or what.

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  78. enjayneer - Pagkain ata. Hehe

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  79. ako, i first saw one when i was in elementary, grade 5 siguro. but i become so interested to the point of staying up til 5 am nung nag-21 ako. pampalipas lang ng init hehe...

    and i agree with timberboy...yung porn di na maxado nakaka-excite kc predictable... ok pa nga yung mga Rated R lang.

    btw, tnx for the visit sa blog ko.

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  80. Grade 5 ako nung una akong nakapanood ng porn. Tapos tuloy-tuloy na.
    Sa dami na ng napanood kong porn, parang wala ng effect.
    Mas naeexcite pa ako sa mga rated R films kasi mas nabibigyan ang utak mo na mag-imagine kung anong pwedeng mangyari sa mainit na eksena. =op

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  81. nakapanood ako ng porn siguro 10 years old ako...at nag-enjoy naman... hehehe

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  82. like most of the typical young people, nanunood din ako ng porn movies...
    but now that I'm on my early 20s na, boring na yang panunood ng mga ganyan...
    id prefer to sleep na nga lang e...
    parang wala ng thrill kasi sa sangkatutak na porn ba naman na napanuod mo, walang alam mo na lahat ng mangyayari...

    but id also like to comment on the gender issue side here...
    yeah, i agree that in our society, it is always the men who dominate, pero mabuti na lang obsolete na yang ganyang pananaw ngaun...
    pero pagdating sa porn movies, naawa pa rin ako sa mga babae lalo na pag sobrang baboy na nung ginagawa...

    anyway, nice post...:)

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  83. Porn can never really be done tastefully, but nudity can be done in a very tasteful manner...

    Anu nga pala mga porn mo dyan?? enge ako... hehehe

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  84. Dabo - hehe may ganun talaga'
    welcome sa aking pahina : )

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  85. Knoxxy - hehe thanks for dropping by...

    RaYe - hentai? Wala pa ako napanood nyan...

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  86. Wow, nice post,there are many person searching about that now they will find enough resources by your post

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  87. bigla ko tuloy gusto manood ng porn. chos!

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